SINGLE LADIES IN THE HOUSE this is for you.
It’s best you differentiate between the hunter and the gardener and which one of them you need and fall for.
WHAT KIND OF MAN DO YOU FALL FOR?
I fall for guys who see me as very intelligent and see my purpose and talent.
A man that wants to nurture me to become my best.
Guys who can engage me in meaningful conversations where we talk about goals and way forward and lots more.
All that; “baby what are you wearing gist”
“Baby are you alone?”
Are a total turn off.
The man I fall for is the man that after series of dates, has not made any sexual move.
I start feeling safe!
That’s just me.
I fall for gardeners!
And as a matter of fact, hunters don’t find me appealing because I am too serious for them.
Only a gardener can work and walk with me.
What about you?
SINGLES TAKE NOTE.
1.Concentrate on building strong and real friendship, check out your compatibility and how you are able to handle aspects of your lives that are not compatible. That’s what will keep you together for long. Sexual chemistry cannot sustain a relationship or marriage. Prioritise right.
2. We have seen this a lot; “IF YOU WANT TO KNOW A MAN THAT WILL TREAT A WOMAN RIGHT, WATCH HOW HE TREATS HIS MOTHER!”
This morning I want you to know that a man can love his mother to the high heavens and still not treat his own woman right. Watch every sign of how he treats you. You are not his mother.
3. Don’t be too desperate that you start running into the arms of the one you should be running away from. Chill, what is yours will come and then there will be no stress at all.
4. Single ladies, a comfortable man is good but not equivalent to the perfect man. Don’t let the size of a man’s wallet or the things you see deceive you. The perfect man is the one who fits you in the many ways you can imagine.
5. It is wrong on all levels to fight for someone who is not fighting for you. We must all learn to use our energy for the right things.