Marilyn Oma Anona writes: If people genuinely don’t like you, be concerned!

Marilyn Oma Anona
Marilyn Oma Anona

Darling it beats me…
I don’t understand why you are so concerned about those who hate you when there are a million and one people that love you!
Why are you so bothered and always talking about haters who are in most cases imaginary?
Let’s assume there are people who hate you… Let me ask you, must everyone love you?

Always talking about haters is so annoying and I have come to discover that the people who talk about haters the most are the people who are hardly noticed. How can people hate you when no one knows about your existence.
Isn’t it funny?
I have a problem with anyone who is always talking about how much they are hated and probably envied by others. I think such people have very unhealthy minds and are seeking for unnecessary attention.
Yes we all know that there are haters, every living being has at least a few haters… But always making a fuss on how much haters you have is so unattractive… Especially when your life has no essence and uniqueness and nothing outstanding. Please stop it!

HATERS is probably one of the most used and over rated words in recent times. Each time I see a post or caption fuming about how haters won’t let a person be, I just shudder… What an idle being! I just say to myself; “this one wants to be noticed… Delusion!” Even Christ our saviour had many haters, so why are you making a hell of noise?
Sometimes, people don’t hate you.. They don’t just like you! Must everyone like you?
And again, some people are not likeable for one reason or the other!
It could be their stinking attitude…
Forceful nature…
Wicked nature…
Fake nature…
Could be because you brag too much…
You don’t listen or take other people’s opinion…
You boast about how you don’t care, when we all know you are the weakest person on planet earth…
There are just many reasons why people may genuinely not like you!

And then again, some people feel it’s a prestige to be hated and that when you are hated, it means you are doing something right… I usually laugh when I come across this set of people! That people do not like you does not in any way translate to “doing something right” or “being on the right track”… Stop deceiving yourselfl!

When I see some captions or updates from anyone trying to say that they don’t care about how many people hate them and how hating them makes them grow better, I simply see a person who has given people good reasons to be hated.

If people genuinely don’t like you, then you should be concerned… That is if you are normal!
That is part of growth. The reasons they dislike or hate you may be very valid and getting to know and improving on those things will help you in life. Changing those bad traits may be the real thing that will propel you into growth.
Most times, we are just so stagnant but think too highly of ourselves just because of the tiny progress we have managed to reckon. That is not right!

Stop gloating and talking about haters as if your life revolves around negativity.
Always adjust and get better and stop fussing and carrying a negative burden like a trophy.


One comment

  1. Wow!! What a wonderful write up. OMA you re indeed a prolific writer, its a privilege for me to read it, thank you.

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