We all have been in nasty, heart wrecking, trouble filled relationships at some point in our life. Most of us have been heart broken by people who swore to love us till the end of time. Betrayed and disappointed by people who swore not to ever make us cry. As a result of some of this issues most have given up on relationships and now see it as relationshit. Even when we eventually meet someone who is so true to us, we won’t open up because of the past.
Most times, we hear people say ” I am done with this stuFf called relationship” its so stressful, I just want to face my career. This is because of previous relationship that sapped their entire energy and they ended up being disappointed. But guys, you need to have a relationship because you need to balance every aspect of your life. You need a good woman beside you because a good woman will make you a better man. A good woman will bring many positive things to your life. When you have the love of a good woman supporting you, there will be nothing you can’t accomplish.
*** A good woman boosts your self esteem, makes you confident.
*** A good woman will be honest with you, whether you like it or not. While being supportive and encouraging, she will also tell you if there is something you need to change and improve, and who doesn’t want to improve?
*** A good woman will never do anything to disappoint you or drag your name in the mud whether she will be caught or not.
*** A good woman will not encourage you to waste your money on useless things. She will advise you instead to invest in good things that you will benefit from in the long run. For example, a good woman will prefer you still live in that mini apartment, drive a small car but save up to buy a house or build a house. A good woman sees beyond. A good woman is not a now woman. She recognizes prospects!
*** A good woman will never judge you. She will accept you as you are, giving you more confidence in yourself.
*** A good woman is totally submissive in as much as she is independent, she is still a woman and doesn’t hide her vulnerabilities.
*** A good woman will make you want to be the best version of yourself, just by being present in your life.
*** A good woman is always looking for ways to make you happy.
*** A good woman will support you in all of your ventures. She will be your cheerleader and encourage you to chase after your goals and dreams.
Every man needs a good woman by his side. Unfortunately some do not even notice… When they do, they don’t appreciate. What I plead today is, if you are blessed to have a good woman in your life, please appreciate her because a good woman doesn’t take her man for granted, but wants to be encouraged by simple acts of love.
Be Enlightened! Be Inspired!! Be Motivated!!!