Yes, your life may not be the best you thought or imagined it would be 5years ago. Most of us had dreams that at this stage in our life, we should be at a certain level. That time approaches and you realize you are no where close to your dreams and aspirations. You are not alone, I am in those shoes too. There are so many things I thought I should have started or even concluded but it hurts that I have not even started some of those things let alone completing them. Have your dreams been shattered, your heart broken and are you just about to give up? Still, clinging to pieces of your life? I am here to tell you that there is light at the end of the tunnel. So please hang in there. Don’t give up just yet. You have come too far. Giving up is a no no. Don’t even try giving up. You must understand and always bear in mind that what ever current misfortune or woe you are experiencing is temporary. Things must surely get better. After the storm or rain, the sun must shine. Use this period to discover yourself. Hard times test us and shape our character. It is not the good times that reveal our true inner depths, it is the bad times that do that. Do you like what is being revealed? If not, it can be a very constructive time of life when you pinpoint parts of your character that you’d like to work on and improve.
Make plans for the life you want to live. Act like you are already living it, and you will surprise yourself to see some of the things come to be, just because you are already acting as if you are leading that preferred life. Be persistent and loyal to your plans, yet flexible. Goals are all very well when they align properly with the person you are, but remember that you will always continue to change and sometimes, your goals need to change with you.
There is always light at the end of the tunnel friends. Don’t kill yourself at the eleventh hour. Hang in there. Don’t worry, be happy. Be Enlightened! Be Inspired!! Be Motivated!!!