Having a career or a job is not all about the money or salary. Your job has a deeper connection to your entire life than most of us think…. Marilyn Anona

From daily interaction, personal experience and observation over a period of time, I have come to realize that a lot of people do not like their jobs and are just doing it because that’s what they have at the moment and the high rate of unemployment has only made this worse. I worked with a financial institution and throughout the time I spent with them, I was surrounded by colleagues who were always nagging and complaining of how much they loathe their present job and searching for a new one. And this is not peculiar to just my former colleagues, in fact most of us pick up jobs often saying “let me be managing this one” knowing full well that, that is not what we want to do! Why do so many people hate their jobs? There are many reasons why people hate their jobs. ***If its a job you know within you that you do not like at all but are forced by circumstances to take, you will never like the job. You hate the job even before picking it up and as a matter of fact you can never do well with it. How do you expect to be happy or do well as a marketer when you hate the whole idea of marketing such that you have developed a phobia for it. *** A good reason why people may hate their jobs is when an employee stays in a particular level too long. And most times these employees keep their heads down nd don’t complain loudly due to unemployment crisis. They are afraid to talk and they are even more afraid to move. You have an instance where people are employed as graduate trainees for example to be confirmed as proper staff of the company after six months but most times companies don’t keep to their words and have these employees work for more than a year without confirmation. Naturally, anyone in this shoe will not be comfortable. *** Again, when an employee works longer hours beyond the usual hours and isn’t rewarded properly, he or she would feel used and if this lingers on, hatred for the job sets in. *** When work/life balance is heading in the wrong direction, it affects the love for our jobs. Electronic devices and mobile technology have made it hard to turn work off. Emails, texts, action items and reports come flowing in via smart phones, laptops and tablets all hours of the day and night and even on weekends. Gosh! People are exhausted and unable to recharge and enjoy time with their families. This leads to resentment. *** Negative employer/employee relationships can make us also hate our jobs. Negative relationships can range from taking credit for subordinate’s work, under-appreciation, being difficult, bullying, sexual harassment and more. Bosses come in all shapes and sizes and if you don’t have a good relationship with them, you start hating your job! *** When you know what you want to do with your life, when you know your purpose, and your present job has an unclear career path, you start to hate your job. When an employee doesn’t see how they can grow their skills/experiences and advance, when there is no training and development leading directly to advancement, a person who has a dream, ambition and goal in life will not be comfortable with such a job and will start hating it. Now the big question is, who should we blame here? We may choose to blame the government for unemployment crisis, or blame the companies but remember its all about you! Its your job… Its your life… So let’s focus on you and how to remedy this situation. ***Now, If you find yourself hating your job, you need to take the time to stop and think about why. Is it the money? Is it the people? Is it the work or the hours? ***Ok, you know what the problem is! So decide if you are going to do something about it. Or not. But make that decision. If your answer is, “No, I will stay here,” then stop complaining. If your answer is, “Yes, I want to get another job ” then build a plan and execute it! *** At this point, set a goal! This is very important because it makes you not to go for just anything. Articulate what it is you will look for, being very clear and specific. Identify the function, industry, company type, location, salary minimum, and much more. *** This is the most important part. Put this plans into action. It is very important that you love your job. When you hate your job, everything is a task because there is no passion. You feel unfulfilled and depressed. Having a career or a job is not all about the money or salary. Your job has a deeper connection to your entire life than most of us think. When you are doing a job you love, a job you are passionate about, your life is more significant, satisfying and complete. Be Enlightened! Be Inspired!! Be Motivated!!!

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15 comments

  1. The Point Has Been Extracted……Itz Very Important That Concerning The Level And Rate Of Unemployment In The Country, One Need To Show Passion In What Ever Job One Has Found His Or Herself Even If The Pay Iz Weak Or Doesn’t Go In Line With One’s Chosen Career….Other Employees Have Found Themselves In Higher Places (With Peak Payment ) Cos’ Of The High Commitment Placed On The Current Job….. Great Write Up As Usual Posh ! More Grace !

  2. This is an awesome factual article. This topic has been in the heads of people but has always been avoided. I’m glad you took yo time to work on this. Plain, explanatory and simple. Thumbs up babe

  3. ..very very intelligent article bur what about parents who impose careers on their children?? …i’ve got someone who’z studying to be a doctor but his desire is to study geography…his parents imposed this on him…how then would he enjoy the job if he at all makes it to being a doctor?

    • Thanks for your contribution. This is the major reason why poshmarilyn was set up. Helping those who have lost track to get back on track. Realising our values in good time to be able to make the right choices.

  4. Yeah, u re right, dis is due to the fact that the ratio of available jobs to the amount of graduate is not proportionate…. I wouldn’t advice any1 to quit is job…. But instead look at the positive things about it…. Use the little positive factor to be a source of motivation and carry on… After dis u might eventually be looking foward to going to work cause u might eventually find something interesting about…. Ignore the negative things about the job…. It is hard thou, but give it a try…. Eventually if nothing positive comes out look for another job as soon as possible before that job kills u.

  5. The question is “If money was not an issue in life will you still be working where you are working now?”Marilyn Oma Anona just made a compelling case for a new approach in seeking a good Job in Nigeria now.Nice one Oma.Always on point!

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